Common Myths about Doulas

MYTH--A doula will "take over" the roll of the partner. 

Truth--A doula is there to enhance the relationship between the laboring couple and the hospital staff.  As your doula, I can help the partner become involved to his comfort level whether it be a physical touch relaxation technique or verbal guidance. Your partner knows you better than anyone and I respect that the experience is all about you and your family unit.   

 
MYTH--"If I opt for an epidural, the doula will leave."

Truth--As your doula, I am there to support you in having a safe & satisfying birth, whatever YOUR choices are.  My goal is to hopefully have you walk away with a positive birth experience through evidence based education, emotional and physical support. 

MYTH--A Doula is not necessary because the nurse, partner or other family member is present.

Truth--Nurses are typically assigned to multiple patients and shifts may change during the duration of your labor, thus changing nurses.  Your doctor does not usually hang around during your labor, they just attend the birthing part.  As your doula I will stay with you throughout your labor.  I am a constant for you, holding you & your partners hand, so to speak, every step of the way. 

MYTH--Doulas only attend home births and they can deliver babies.

Truth--I attend births at hospitals, birth centers, or at your home.  As a doula, I do not deliver babies.  I do not perform clinical skills such as vaginal exams or fetal heart rate monitoring.  I do not diagnose medical conditions, offer second opinions, or give medical advice.  Most importantly, I do not make decisions for my clients.